I think Chinese people, history, geography, culture, and philosophy are all really cool.
CCP? Not so much.
I honestly think Chinese and Americans could get along really well in the grand scheme of things.
Both cultures are extremely ambitious, albeit in different ways. And, whether most people realize it or not, we've already learned a lot from each other.
I think the post-AI race world will be quite different from the Soviet Cold War.
Where Russians all hate/envy America and just want to be more American, yet blindly say America is the cause of all their problems, China is much more high agency, which is something we could come to admire about each other.
There are some deep differences and antagonistic things.
For instance, both China and America think they are the center of the world. That can lead to some amusing disagreements and cultural clashes.
Then there's the long mistrust and abuse (Century of Humiliation) which yeah, understandable that many Chinese dislike or mistrust the West as a whole (to be fair, that was the British Empire, not America).
The funniest thing, I think, is that both China and America have this philosophical narcissism that "we are the best, we know how the world REALLY works" and in some respects our values are aligned, but in some respects they couldn't be more different.
I say this all as someone who understands and believes in structural realism and the geopolitical realities of today, but I hope that America and China can be friends one day in the same way that we're now friends with Japan and Germany (I am NOT suggesting after a major war! Just that people can get over their differences!)