Wall Street Journal reporter. I write a column on relationships & am working on a book for @Simonbooks. I ❤️ people, reading, sailing, scuba & all things ocean.

Miami / NYC
Some fun news: My book will be be available April 27! Part memoir/part self-help, it's about the best advice I've learned writing my @WSJ column, told through my own story. If you're interested in reading it, would you please consider pre-ordering? 🙏 urldefense.com/v3/__bit.ly/t…
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Is your therapist biased?  Mental-health professionals are supposed to keep their personal experiences & opinions out of the therapy room. Yet in our sharply divided culture, more appear to be falling short. My latest column explores the issue. wsj.com/health/wellness/is-y…
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We've been speaking an average of 338 fewer words a day--each day--since 2005, a new study shows. My latest column looks at what we lose when we give up this small talk--and how we can be better at it. wsj.com/lifestyle/relationsh…
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After decades of urging families to communicate better and work on their issues, some therapists are taking an opposite tack: They're encouraging estrangement. But is this self-care of selfishness? My latest column explores the question. wsj.com/lifestyle/relationsh…
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How can you prevent a family estrangement? I explored the topic with @drjcoleman in my latest column. And today at 4 p.m. ET, we'll be doing a live text chat for @WSJ subscribers, to answer your questions. Please join us at the link below! wsj.com/lifestyle/relationsh…
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One of my favorite parts of being a relationship columnist is hearing about readers' own hard-earned advice. Each December, I like to share the best-of-the-best with you. Please enjoy this year's treasure trove. wsj.com/lifestyle/relationsh…
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In my latest column, I explored how parents of addicts are caught between a rock and a hard place.
Rob Reiner's story is a reminder of the constant struggle of the parents of addicts trying to care for and protect a son or daughter who is self-destructive, indifferent to consequences and possibly dangerous. on.wsj.com/3YbA87V
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Elizabeth Bernstein retweeted
Quoted in this poignant piece in the WSJ by @EBernsteinWSJ about parenting an adult child with mental illness and addictions. wsj.com/health/wellness/nick…, @MPGKeynoteAgent,@ClearyStrat1, @penguinrandom
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My latest is on the pissed-off parent pushback–the movement of estranged moms who are fed up and speaking out. Their message: We weren’t bad parents. This is the kids’ fault. Now, my needs come first. wsj.com/lifestyle/relationsh…
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I wrote something personal for my latest @WSJ column.
Our columnist searches for new ways to cope as a caregiver, offering stories from others taking care of loved ones and expert advice. wsj.com/lifestyle/relationsh…
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I celebrated a Silver Anniversary this week: 25 years at the @WSJ! It has been the privilege of a lifetime. 🙏🙏🙏
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I have some news: I've joined the National Affairs reporting team at the @WSJ. I'll write my column--but also focus on stories that explore how current trends in culture, politics & religion affect women, relationships and families. Here's my first one. wsj.com/us-news/allie-beth-s…
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Are you a hypocrite? That depends on whom you ask. Research shows that while we're quick to spot hypocrisy in others--especially our enemies--we have a hard time recognizing it in ourselves. My latest column offers some guidance on how to curb our own. wsj.com/lifestyle/relationsh…
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My latest column.
Lost your mojo? You’re not the only one. Americans are having a record low amount of sex—even less than they did during the Covid-19 pandemic—according to a new study led by researchers at the Institute for Family Studies. 🔗 on.wsj.com/4mE9z5L
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Elizabeth Bernstein retweeted
Check out @EBernsteinWSJ most recent @WSJ column on the topic of emotional infidelity. With some brief research-based insights from me:
We all have close confidants. But when we share more with someone than we do with our spouse, develop romantic feelings for that person, and keep this intimacy a secret, we may be having an emotional affair. My latest column explores the issue. wsj.com/lifestyle/relationsh…
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We all have close confidants. But when we share more with someone than we do with our spouse, develop romantic feelings for that person, and keep this intimacy a secret, we may be having an emotional affair. My latest column explores the issue. wsj.com/lifestyle/relationsh…
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RT @paulkrugman: As Groucho Marx said in The Cocoanuts, “You can have any kind of a home you want. You can even get stucco. Oh, how you can…
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