The best Ws are the ones you never saw coming. This week it was catching a glimpse of my arms while stretching at barre. Like yeah, they’re kind of big because I was never built to be lithe, but damn when my cute little biceps and triceps popped out to say hello? I built that 💪

Why, in the year of our Lord, 2026, do we still assume a woman has a man financing her life just because we don’t understand how she makes money? “Must be nice to have your man pay all your bills.” Guess hardwork looks good on me 😚

Also, if a consenting adult wants to spend their money on another consenting adult? Cool. It’s *their* money! Love that 👏 But let’s disperse with the misogynistic assumption that a woman’s success is only due to a man’s labor and not her own. (thx 4 coming to my ted talk 😎)

“You’re just *so busy*.” I assure you, I am actually not *that* busy. In fact, I am so *not* busy that it’s made me re-evaluate where I should spend most of my career focus. I think sometimes we see the big wins and don’t always realize the longer lulls that happen in between.

And that can be nerve-wracking. You ask yourself “Is it me? What changed? What should I do differently?” You cannot control much as an actor but you can control how and when you show up, put your best foot forward, keep working on your craft and visualizing where you want to go.