Always enjoy the success experience you have earned, but never confuse confidence with arrogance.....😅😅

if you're currently 25-32, please read this carefully.

Times have changed. Why? Because the girls that weren’t checked then,have become mothers and the only thing they are teaching their girls? Billing culture. If you got your wife with money,it’s money signaling men your daughter will also attract cos your wife can’t teach any other thing.

3 must read books in 2026 📖📚 1: Tune In

How to Be a Better Conversationalist : Read this if you want to Master the Art of dealing with Human Nature and dominate any social settings. --THREAD--

Read more, consume less. Your mind is muscle. Train it. Be mentally jacked. Read old books. The classics. The books no else reads. If you read "best sellers", you'll think like everybody else. Read Crime & Punishment. Read Moby Dick. Read 100 years of Solitude. Books that confuse you. Books that change the way you see people, suffering, love, meaning, and life. Books that change the way you perceive reality.

I’ve read over 1,000 books if you want to upgrade your life, start with these 30 1. atomic habits 2. deep work 3. the psychology of money 4. the daily stoic 5. meditations 6. man’s search for meaning 7. the almanack of naval ravikant 8. think and grow rich 9. rich dad poor dad 10.the power of now 11. discipline equals freedom 12. can’t hurt me 13. the mountain is you 14. ego is the enemy 15. the 4-hour workweek 16. the slight edge 17. outwitting the devil 18. principles 19. the millionaire fastlane 20.influence 21. mastery 22.essentialism 23.the one thing 24.never split the difference 25.start with why 26.the art of war 27.the subtle art of not giving a f*ck 28.shoe dog 29.the compound effect 30. awaken the giant within read slowly. apply aggressively. how many books have you read?

There is no way two adults from different homes, upbringing & experiences would come together to cohabit or be married as a man & a woman, & they'll not have a fight, quarrel or arguments. And it starts from relationships. If you're not ready to sow the pains, then you do not deserve to reap from the joy. Relationship frictions are not necessarily red flags. What is a red flag is extreme violence, threat to life, and when there is more quarrels than peace. Do not go into any relationship, hoping that it will always be peaceful. Otherwise, you're in a relationship where you're either pretending, not being yourself or burying the dirts under the rug to make the living room look beautiful. Your partner must provoke you. Your partner will test your resolve, & sometimes, do the unexpected. This is how you train each other to learn how to tolerate yourselves. And then, you snap out of it, and keep pushing. I have always taught that the first 5 years of marriage is mostly the difficult phase. Even if you cohabited during your relationship. But what cohabitation will teach you, is experience. Somethings you'd experience within your first 5 years in marriage, may not be new to you. And you'd not have to be going out of your matrimonial homes to seek for help from "outsiders" at the slightest provocation. Your wife may tear your boxers one day. Your wife may seize your car keys or block the door so that you would not go out. Your wife may refuse to cook your meal or serve you, even if she has cooked your meal. Your wife may annoy you for nothing. You as a man must learn tolerance, & learn that not all emotional outbursts would lead to physical violence. Your husband may hit you out of anger. Your husband may refuse to eat your food because you annoyed him. Your husband may go out of the house, refuse to pick your calls, & come back very late, without responding to your greeting. Your husband may cheat on you, too. You as the wife, must find ways to manipulate him in a healthy way, use your feminine energy, and show him that you're still his queen, regardless. Learn how to keep quiet when he's angry. And learn how to speak when he's calm. When you see couples celebrating 5, 10, 15, 20, 25, 30, 35 years of marriage, they're not telling you that it has been all rosy through the years. They're telling you that they have persevered, tolerated each other and made sacrifices and compromises for each other. Stop thinking that they performed magic. They did not. And even if those people are your parents, you do not know their real struggles. What you know is what they decided to show you. Go and get married, and see if you would do better than they did. End.

1) Invest your idle funds 2) Do not be addicted to betting or gambling 3) Do not steal 4) Do not be complacent & upgrade your skill & knowledge 5) Build good connections & don't burn bridges 6) Marry a woman that is contented & very patient 7) Learn to honor your father with your first fruit 8) Do not lead a woman with money 9) Learn to give to charity 10) Be kind to your wife, & be financially transparent 11) Learn to have kids that only you can cater to, without necessarily depending on your wife's money 12) Do not let a woman set you up for failure 13) Plan your wedding mostly according to your resources 14) Hold on tight to God 15) Learn to pay your wife back her debt 16) Invest in yourself, far more than you would want to invest in your wife 17) Learn to say No, sometimes 18) Marry early You'll surely have financial challenges, but you'll overcome, if you do most of the above. End.

Life will test you with the same challenge until you learn the lesson. The same fight in every relationship. The same burnout in every job. The same regret in every missed chance. Until you do the inner work, the outer world won’t change.

Marriage should not scare you. What should scare you is getting married to the wrong spouse. That is why you need to stay close to your father if he's still alive. That is why you should cohabit at intervals. That is why you must put money aside, & test your commitments. That is why women should not love men. That is why men should stop stealing. That is why if you're not virgins, you must test your sexual compatibility. That is why you must know and align with your tribe and religion. That is why you must ask questions & do proper background check, before you marry. That is why you must never turn your back on God. That is why you must choose her mother before you choose her. That is why the man must be financially transparent and the woman must be financially accountable. That is why the woman must not be caught in infidelity. That is why you should not be too quick to break up and make up, because "insects" can slip through the cracks. That is why both of you must fight, quarrel, and use each episode as a teaching and learning moment. That is why the man must be older but not with a very wide gap. That is why a man must not be with a woman that is richer, more educated and more exposed than he is. That is why I am here. Tell yourselves this: As a woman: "I want to be sincere in this relationship. I want it to be my last. I will respect my man & create boundaries for him. I will not love him, & I will not enable him but support him & let him lead me. I want to be feminine & I don't want to compete with my man. I'll sacrifice and invest in him with the hope that he's investing in the future of both of us" As a man: "I want to love this woman. But if I'm struggling to love her, I want to be deliberately committed & kind to her. If I cheat, I'll not rub my cheating on her face. I will not steal to take care of this woman if I marry her. I'll work hard and lead this woman right. I will always look up to God for direction & blessing and I'll not hate my father. I will not be a mommy's boy & I'll put this woman first before my mother. I will protect her from my family, & protect my family from her. I will learn to make sweet love to her, & treat her like a queen". So help me God. End.

Major cheat code for life: Don’t wait. Take that crazy leap of faith. Say the words now. Tell people you love them. Apologize when you should. Forgive. Everything in life has an expiration date. Opportunities don’t wait until you’re ready. Miss them now and you miss them forever.

What a boy needs to marry a wife is the right mindset & courage. A boy needs to start small but not empty. Any boy that is waiting to have it all before he marries a wife, is a nylon weight. You'll never have it all. If you are courageous, you'll join the league of men. End.

“Read books because you will never be able to meet and spend uninterrupted time with the thoughts of so many brilliant and unique people.” ― Mark Manson

Women don't love men. But that doesn't mean that if your woman says... "I love you darling" Then you'll not respond by saying... "I love you too my baby" Just know, & recognize why she's saying it. It's either you have given her money, good sex or she misses sex. End.

One of the most popular Nikola Tesla manifestation methods🤯‼️

If you consume too much food, you get a food coma. You can’t move. The same goes for information. If you consume too much information, you get an information coma. You overthink everything. You get stuck. The solution: Consumption in moderation, action in abundance.

Major career cheat code: Be the person who can figure it out. You’ll be handed tasks you have no idea how to complete. There's nothing more valuable than someone who can just figure it out. Do some work. Ask key questions. Get it done. If you do that, people will fight over you.

8 Greatest Laws I know at 40, I wish I knew at 20: 1.