Which is the harder thing to accept… You’re in a great relationship, everything is it seems going great but then from nowhere it’s ended with the classic, it’s not you it’s me ! So is it harder to accept it’s over or is it harder accepting it ended without being allowed to try or help fix the problem that was the reason it ended ? Nobody hails the person that ghost someone because it’s just not how you should treat a person that you at least like enough to share your time which if you don’t know is your most valuable resource. So to end a relationship without first mentioning there is a problem isn’t that just ghosting someone while still in the relationship !? So to be clear, I get for some it’s not always possible, some folk might feel intimidated to give someone a chance because their behaviour changes for a week or so and then reverts back . So it’s easier to just make a clean break but if we are honest in those situations it’s not a lightning bolt . I’m talking a completely out of the blue great amazing everyone is happy relationship, until bang ! Would the world be a better place if men could read a woman’s mind !

To those that think I hate living here ! A question to Americans 🇺🇸 Would you be happier if you didn’t live by laws based on your constitution. Would life be better if you lived life under British law , our tax rates , our medical freedoms ( free medical coverage) Our Gun laws ( uk deaths from guns was 32 last yr … death in the USA from homicide was 11,100. The per capita head per million of the population are, uk ..0.5 The figure for America was 32 per million our speed limits. Our legal system and education system where a university / college degree won’t mean you lose a kidney to pay for it ! Were police don’t wear guns as a matter of routine unless they are part of a special armed operational unit. Where our TV stations only run advertising four times an hour ! But also you WONT have protected speech, you can’t call a stranger a cunt in the middle of the street or a police officer. I’m not advocating America becoming a part of the UK , just adopting our laws My question is based on your quality of life not your status as an American.

Republican candidate for governor of the Great State of Ohio….. Vivek Ramaswamy. The fall out of his disgusting decision to run an add as part of his campaign for the office of Governor of Ohio is coming home to roost . If you don’t know the background it’s very simple… A child is the victim of a pedo, who happens to be the father. The father was arrested & charged for the rape of the child multiple times and physically abusing her brother. None of these facts are in dispute. The father decided to flee authorities before being locked up . The courts removed both children from the parents custody for their protection, this was when the daughter was 12yrs old . The mother who apparently knew nothing of these events before they became public decided not to stay and support her children but fled with the husband. Never setting eyes on her children again. Then 48 yrs later a billionaire who had previously thought he had what it takes to be elected President decided to have another run at public office by way of the office of Governor for the Great State of Ohio . As part of that campaign and tv add was made and distributed to television stations all across the State to somehow promote his election. The message was a simple one, the candidate for the Democratic Party couldn’t be trusted because that candidate was a lair ( and the Republican party knows a thing or two about lairs ! ) Here though is the important part, to call someone a lair without proof is defamation and if proven in court could get very expensive ! But while many might accuse some Republicans of exactly that ( there’s an orange one that springs to mind ) in this instance they themselves didn’t make the allegation, no instead they allowed the mother of the democratic candidate to make that allegation. The same mother who allowed or at least failed to stop her husband from raping his daughter multiple times and fled with him when he faced yrs in prison. The same mother who hasn’t seen her daughter in 48 yrs . They accused the rape victim of being a lair, where have we heard that before ? Is that the level republican politicians have fallen too ! Well no not all of them , most members of the GOP in Ohio condemned the add , it’s known as the dumbest add in politics not for the allegations voiced but for the sheer poor taste , the flagrant disregard for the truth , for manipulating a very old lady to open old wounds. The disgusting and disgraceful decision to air the add says everything you need to know about one candidate moral compass and level of compassion not to mention there competency to be called Governor. All this happened 8 days ago , both The President and Vice President…aka twiddle Dee and twiddle dumb refused to condemn the add and in the add as since been air again. There is sadly no shame or level of embarrassment these few individuals will not steep to for power . The shame isn’t on the Democratic candidate it’s fully on the Republican candidate .

Dorman red card … harsh isn’t the word … the whole game has seen plenty of strong challenges and sadly a lower league Ref has allowed plenty of them to go unpunished. Was the game bigger than the ref was ready for ? Players from every league in the country rely on the ref to protect them , if the ref doesn’t they will do it themselves .

Breaking news … the Arsenal v Fleetwood fixture tomorrow is under threat of possible postponement due to high winds and heavy rain in the Lancashire region. Currently the fixtures is on but officials are closely monitoring the weather. Don’t travel without first checking for updates . The threat of a fixture pile-up for Arsenal is a real possibility with the group stage of the Champions League in full swing .

Breaking Bad … After another colossal disaster at Old Trafford earlier, could next season become one of the strangest seasons of football seen since 1903 ! It’s madness to think it could but is is a possibility a strong one at the moment .

Game of the weekend for exciting finish ….. 49ers @ Seattle … what a game . For the two best defences in the league it was a high scoring game . 49ers move on seeking another super-bowl appearance the target.

We’ll keep our overrated player thanks 😂😂😂

Watching teams that seek a champions league spot at the end of the season, it can’t go unnoticed some of their defending has been atrocious! So the question is what’s Gabby ( the Brazilian wall ) worth on the transfer market. Reports suggest both Bayern Munch and Madrid are thinking of tempting Arsenal in the summer . The next question is he the best defender on Arsenal’s books currently ? Many will say Saliba but can you be the best if you’re not available !

Blimey .. This could get embarrassing very quickly..

Whoops .. I guess Manger number 9 will be getting appointed in the morrow !

Now that Liverpool are winning their game at home it begs the question, how many neutrals will have switched over to watch the UTD game in expectation of Utd getting another spanking ?

Breaking nonsense….. Is the fourth official at Stamford Bridge wearing shoes along with his official track suit !?

Correct me if I’m wrong but haven’t Chelsea and Spurs twats being chippy all week about Arsenals style of play being boring ! Well I for one can’t stay awake watching the 💩they are entertaining the nation with currently.

A subject more important than any other in the world today ….

Two subjects worthy of consideration, one far more important than the other ! 1st … When did they last make something good to watch ?

Given the fall out from an interview with TNT after Utd’s spanking in the Champions League last night , is it time for the unthinkable to happen, Fernandes is sold in January ! If so who gets the captains armband or do Utd need to buy a captain and would Aston Villa’s current captain John McGinn fit the bill and be acceptable to Utd fans?

Ok ..time to confess but alas it’s nothing that any publisher will run in its front page tomorrow thankfully. So in this new world of Ai am I the only one when asking Chat GBT a question that says please and thank you to it ! Does that reflect my manners or my stupidity ? It’s been on my mind so pls tell me I’m not alone !

BREAKING: Manchester City relegation reports @talkSPORT on the reaction to claims that Manchester City could face relegation following their financial rule breaches over a nine-season period.’ The big question is, is this the minimum sanction Premier League fans would accept, or the maximum sanction Manchester City would accept? Comment below if you think that’s city getting off lightly or a disgraceful over the top punishment ?

I’m at heart a lover not a fighter but .. I did grow up in a time when some of the all time greatest boxers thrilled the world of boxing, Mohammad Ali , Sugar Ray Leonard , Mike Tyson, Nigel Benn , Barry McGuigan to name just a handful there were many more . Boxing has in my opinion become in recent yrs more about legacy and the £ note . Fights are avoided not fought for all the wrong reasons but at the weekend two very brave fighters and yes fighters not boxers took to the arena and stood toe to toe to prove who had the stamina, courage and power to become the next WBO World Heavyweight Champion. Forget all those fights you have seen in recent yrs from boxers with little skill but a lot of power , this was an epic. A brutal contest of will power and courage, I salute both fighters, neither deserved to lose . I urge you if you can handle the brutality & blood to watch it on YouTube. It’s the best boxing match in yrs.