now the question becomes how do we relax our nervous system enough to actually live in a more relaxed and fun way?
well, we train ourselves. we act before we feel. we make a fool of ourselves and laugh it off, even though the fear of being judged is still there. we walk into a random room like we've been there a thousand times, even though we're filled with nerves.
your mind learns from this act, and it begins to support it, calming you as you constantly expand your bounds.
alexei