in my culture it's an insult for a man if u offer to pay, we got raised spoilt by them
but we also love to spoil our men
when I was 21 I already had a job and my fiancé was in his last year at university, so just coz I could, I gifted him a trip to Thailand (tickets, hotel, restaurants, all covered by me) and it cost me around $3k (it was 2013)
that's a message to western men who call eastern girls gold diggers just coz we don't do 50/50👀
splitting the bill is a major turn off for me
when i moved to finland i noticed most people do it, sometimes even married couples
i could never be with a man who asks me to split the bill
should he pay or is splitting fine?