Can you be a good parent with terrible executive function? Yes.
Can you be a good single parent? Of course, but it's much harder.
With four kids in sports and activities and a busy life on top of that, I've relied on my wife to create a color-coded schedule for us. I store things visually, so once I've seen it, I have at least a chance of remembering where I'm supposed to be and when.
I think it's like that - you need to "cheat" and use whatever tools and techniques help you to stay on track, even though a "normal" person might just do so naturally.
So it's more work, but not a disability.
Can someone who severe Executive Dysfunction from ADHD be a good parent? I mean I can barely get myself to boil an egg and I'd rather sleep hungry, how can I take care of a new human being that needs care, attention and energy 24/7..?