gdl retweeted
قريت تغريده واحد مسوي كت ينتقد وكاتب this mf … وكل المنشن يقولون ليه تقذف وحرام ومدري وش وانا مستغرب وين القذف ما قال شي
طلعت كلمة mf اختصار لشي ثاني مو إختصار ل
my friend وانا من زمان اقراها كذا
مدير حسن الظن والله
8
1
48
2,734
I was married for 17 years and have fallen in love many times before and after. If experience matters in such things, I have it. I believe romantic love is nothing more than infatuation/lust, and friendship is infinitely deeper and more enduring
No but I’m not delusional hence why I said most married people will never experience true romantic love. This doesn’t mean it does not exist after the honeymoon phase. That’s where the real sauce is made
9
2
103
6,001
gdl retweeted
evergreen
there are probably fewer than 500M conscious people on earth that understand self agency to its core. everyone else is just a derivative of a narrative and their lives are mostly fake. literal sub agents just doing stuff. Will isn’t wrong in terms of ‘actual people’ on earth vs slop consumers willing to do what the narrative constructors say they should
22
289
9,925
247,039
Friendship is the truest and most enduring form of love besides parental, which converges on friendship as your children age
“Romantic” love is just a poetic term for passion/infatuation. It is necessarily fleeting (though it may wax and wane over the course of a long relationship), unstable, and, in the early stages of a relationship, generally founded on illusion
You may call a relationship with a romantic dimension a “romantic” one, but if it is to be enduringly fulfilling, it must be founded on friendship
In my opinion, there is no separate phenomenon of “true love” which is superior to friendship or distinct from infatuation. An ideal marriage is simply a lifelong friendship with mutual infatuation/lust
the foundation of friendship is important in a relationship because it makes the hard topics less emotionally loaded to speak about. you trust that they respect you as a person and not just someone they try to impress. this builds a foundation of honesty
7
3
44
1,478
