all roads lead back to yourself, to the standards you ignored, the boundaries you softened, the intuition you doubted. life keeps repeating lessons until you finally listen and become a better version of yourself
If a 13-year-old girl is βold enough to know what she was doing,β then the 25-year-old man who touched her is old enough to rot in prison. Your βboys will be boysβ defense is just pedophile cosplay.
on a serious note, whatever your mind tries to conceal, your body keeps the score. the first time your hand trembles/tremors, the first time it causes a pit on your stomach, or any extreme appetite change, you know your body keeps the score.
life is just humiliating yourself over and over and learning to life with the inherent shame of being alive. do what makes you happy! it is impossible to live life without embarrasment, so why bother trying