Christian, father & husband. thinking strategically in life and business

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Once the family is set, there is a huge sigh of relief. You can take on endless risk once this is done. If you go bankrupt, they won’t even know. That’s the life hack. Give your wife and kids everything and then go crazy for your dreams.
529s, UTMAs, and now Trump accounts for all my kids (except the newest one, no SSN yet) Recurring contributions from my biz accounts Benefits of reading Cerno
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My kids are gonna be rich!!
Next year, I will give one of my SpaceX shares to every kid in America. This will be the first of many.
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elite salespeople are connected to their emotions when they sell. your emotional system is constantly feeding you information: tension. curiosity. frustration. a sense that something doesn’t add up. those feelings/sensations literally give you conversational threads to pull. if you’re stuck in your head thinking about what you’re “supposed” to say next, you’re missing what is happening right in front of your face.
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it has nothing to do with the animation itself, but with the fact that we live in an era where everything is optimized for volume when your only goal is more output, the craft and art themselves have zero importance, or much less than before. byproduct of the attention economy
I miss traditional 2d disney animation. It's almost like a lost art at this point. It's rare to find other studios which handle animation this vigorously.
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This will be legendary
The only other person who’s ever made me this excited about a product unveil was Steve Jobs. Watching him introduce the first iPhone is a huge part of why I fell in love with technology. Elon brings that feeling back for me, but honestly, I think he takes it to a whole different level. Tomorrow, he and the Tesla team are unveiling the next-gen Roadster, and I seriously cannot wait. The Roadster they showed in 2017 already promised 0–60 mph in 1.9 seconds. Since then, Elon has talked about a Tesla–SpaceX collaboration, having it fly, and getting that time below ONE second, and calling it “the least interesting part” of the car. How do you say something like that and expect me NOT to be excited?! But beyond how fast it goes, I want to see something that makes me sit there and say, “Wow… how in the world did they build that?” I honestly don’t know what they’re going to show us, and that’s part of what makes this so much fun. I really want to be surprised and see the unthinkable. These days I feel many older people don’t get that excited about things… I only see that spark in kids. But imo, we should still get excited about people building cool things. We should still root for the nerds, engineers, and designers trying to do something that has never been done before. And I hope there’s a kid watching tomorrow who feels what I felt watching Steve Jobs introduce the iPhone. Someone who sees this car and starts wondering how it works, sketching their own ideas, or thinking about what they could build someday. I hope y’all are ready to have your minds blown. I’m rooting for you, Elon, and the entire Tesla team behind this car. Go give us a night we’ll never forget!
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Gong 100% isn’t the fastest grower, the most AI native possible, largest TAM, etc. Doesn’t have the firepower of an Anthropic, Cursor, etc. I get it. But it’s 99% better than most companies & the people here are amazing. Single digit list of tech companies growing 50% at over a $500M run rate. Grass isn’t always greener & i’m not greedy. Pigs get fat, hogs get slaughtered.
how do we get @BrianLaManna_ out of Dino Jurassic SaaS and into AI-native GTM? need more creators in the AI space + love his content would be cool to have him report in the trenches at one of them
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I’ve done this twice and it’s truly impactful
reflection + gratitude + pen & paper (NO phone) + stimulant of your choice + a clear vision of what you want + knowing exactly what you want + 6months minimum + mindset rewiring workbook = new POV on life and something 98% of people will not do
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Canceled LMNT. Trying @sportdrink
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The need to “figure it out fast” is an ego thing. Do you respect the guy more that built a 80 year old company (my grandpa did this), or the guy that crypto traded for 3 years? The guy with a natural and durable physique with hormones in check, or the one that took steroids to speed the process and has to baby his body back to normalcy? I know the answer, but I still try to go FAST!!
This is a good frame. I put a lot of pressure on myself to figure things out fast. Whether it’s making money, figuring out my Faith, pushing for promotion, getting to events, you name it… This frame is helpful to slow down. It takes the pressure off. What’s important is that I’m focused on the right things. Building bit by bit. You be get in a rat race in anything, not just a w2 thing. And things will actually play out a lot better if I’m not trying to rush. All in good time.
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Per Grok First principles thinking is a method of reasoning that breaks a problem down to its most basic, independently verified truths and then builds a solution upward from those foundations—rather than copying existing approaches or accepting conventional assumptions.
It went from being unknown to being trendy, like lots of great things, but First Principles is a healthy exercise to cut through the bs. Ask grok to walk you through first principles thinking by asking you questions on whatever your challenge is. Every business owner should try this. Kind of why Hormozi is so valued. He defaults to first principles. Somebody says “I can’t afford payroll!”Hormozi would say you have a demand issue and then break down how/why/the solution by asking questions.
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It went from being unknown to being trendy, like lots of great things, but First Principles is a healthy exercise to cut through the bs. Ask grok to walk you through first principles thinking by asking you questions on whatever your challenge is. Every business owner should try this. Kind of why Hormozi is so valued. He defaults to first principles. Somebody says “I can’t afford payroll!”Hormozi would say you have a demand issue and then break down how/why/the solution by asking questions.
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Every Texan has endless pictures of the most incredible skies you’ll ever see
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Most of my friends are guys that are “studs” by any definition of the word. And even then maybe 2 out of 10 have the desire to contribute in that capacity. I don’t know if it’s comfort killing the drive or something else but it’s definitely a thing.
It's a lack of male vitality. They've been beaten down. It's changing. We don't have a lot of time though.
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In the reverse, when someone is offering you connections and helping you out, don’t be greedy. If you know it’s going somewhere and you’re going to benefit off of it offer the person a cut out of kindness. Probably, nobody will do this. Offer referral fees at minimum Don’t you want the person that is helping you to succeed with you? It is an active effort for me to put myself on the bench and let others play too. Not saying it’s easy
Friend of mine used his social network to help his friend build a company. Which sold for 9 figures. (Will be vague, so no one can dox.) My friend expected a nice thank-you. He got nothing. That's how it goes. Get your fees up front. Nobody is going to do you a solid at exit.
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Friend of mine used his social network to help his friend build a company. Which sold for 9 figures. (Will be vague, so no one can dox.) My friend expected a nice thank-you. He got nothing. That's how it goes. Get your fees up front. Nobody is going to do you a solid at exit.
The person making the intro probably learned a lesson I did. I have made life-altering introductions for people. They never sent me so much as a box of cigars as thanks. A 3-5% vig is appropriate, and it's a better deal than a 20% carry.
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