If he/she tells you about something that makes he/she happy, remember it. You might be surprised by how much a small, thoughtful gesture can mean to the person.
I appreciate friendships where nobody is keeping score of who called last, who paid last, or who sent the last message. Both people simply care enough to make an effort.
Surround yourself with men who are willing to challenge you.
Not because they want to see you fail.
Because they recognize what you're capable of becoming.