This reminds me of a great piece of advice from George Clooney:
“Just be their answer”
The interviewer needs an employee.
The casting director needs a star actor.
The girl is on a date bc she wants a boyfriend.
Just be their answer. KNOW you are it, act like it, and you will soon be it.
In a weird way, everybody is rooting for you. When you go to a job interview, the interviewer wants you to be amazing so they don’t have to look anymore. when you go on a date, the person wants to have an amazing date with you. If you make a piece of content, people want to see amazing pieces of content and they have no problem if it’s yours.
the instant you get into the mindset that people want you to do well, your entire world gets better. And you’ll be shocked to know this pattern keeps repeating in different areas of life.