Exactly! I have no problem cleaning up after myself if I’m staying with a friend. But they don’t charge me for the room, let alone a cleaning fee to clean up after myself. So it’s not a fair comparison. They’re comparing apples and oranges.
All of the AirBnB drama boils down to the fact that hosts are running a >>norm arbitrage scheme to get better margin<<:
Hosts deliberately conflate two sets of norms:
1) socially, you're a treasured friend/family who tidies up after himself.
2) commercially, you're a customer who paid for housekeeping.
As a paying guest, you get the obligations of the first and the invoice of the second.
It has always bugged me. No bueno.