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Strangulation during sex is shockingly common among young people. So why are MSPs ignoring this deadly threat?
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"Sex education was so much easier a generation or two ago. As I approached 15, my mother urged me to “be careful” with boys. “Don’t let him unbutton your coat,” she said. Today, I shudder when I think of the sexual minefield that my granddaughters – still more interested in crochet and sharks than boys – will face as they become young women.
The rise in online pornography – available to every young person on their smartphone – has fuelled a change in sexual behaviour and attitudes. Studies from across the world show that young men who watch even non-violent porn display higher levels of sexist attitudes than their parents. And non-fatal strangulation (NFS) – or choking as it is known colloquially – has become the norm among people under 35 years old.
Sitting in a sedate committee room of the Scottish Parliament earlier this week, surrounded by women of all ages, I heard a doctor describe the impact of NFS, second by terrifying second. Pressure around a woman’s neck cuts off the blood supply, leading to blood congestion in her brain. Within six to eight seconds, a women will lose consciousness. After 15 seconds, her bladder will be incontinent, after 30 seconds her bowels will open. She will be brain dead within four minutes.
Professor Cath White OBE, the medical director of the Institute for Addressing Strangulation (IFAS), explained to the silent room how ‘choking’ can also cause brain damage. There is evidence to suggest that it is the second most common cause of stroke in young women – with the brain injury occurring days or weeks after the strangulation incident.
“There is no safe way to strangle,” insists Professor White, yet many young women now consider it a routine part of sex. A recent survey carried out by the institute reveals that over a third (35 per cent) of 16 to 34-year-olds reported being strangled/choked at least once during consensual sex. Only three per cent of older people (55 to 64) say that it is an issue.
Non-fatal strangulation has become so much part of young people’s consensual sexual lives, that the criminal justice system often refers to it as “rough sex”, even if when it results in death. A 2020 analysis of 60 homicides of women across the UK, where the defendant used “rough sex” as his defence, revealed that nearly half (45 per cent) of the cases resulted in a manslaughter (culpable homicide) charge, a lesser sentence or no prosecution at all. As Fiona Mackenzie of the campaign group, We Can’t Consent to This, told the meeting on Wednesday, strangulation during sex is one of the “biggest unspoken issues in our society”."